Empowering women to live their best life

Drive to Your Own Success

Don’t rely on others to pull you up to success. There is no need to lie behind the voice of our leaders to determine our final results. The key to your independent push is operating at your most authentic self, and building your future with your personal decisions.

Along with many other successful women in this world you have the right to push yourself forward with your own identity and determination.  If you take on your own genuine and authentic identity it will be easy for everyone around you to see you as a valuable leader. Work toward your goals while also proclaiming yourself to others as being credible and real in all situations. This authenticity will be the primary factor in your progress to the top of all your goals.

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General Steps to Your Own Success:

  1. Find your passion in life and follow it
  2. Be organized
  3. Network
  4. Be creative
  5. Be willing to learn
  6. Be willing to work hard
  7. Stay persistent
  8. Be brave

Take Control of Life with the Decisions You Make

We must take control of our own decisions in order to further our life progress. Although many worldwide conferences and organizations are working to enhance the voice of women in government, it still must be remembered that every woman’s decision-making abilities are first best used within her own home and life.

There is no need to gain professional leadership or political power in order to develop your own decision-making skills. Simply invest in the information needed for a vital decision, adding to your self-confidence that will add to choices toward your personal gain.

Whether it is health, finance, household or other life needs, you have the internal capability to make every solid decision for independent advancement.

“In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves.

The process never ends until we die.

And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

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When you’re making individual decisions, try using these techniques:

  1. Cost-benefit analysis of the potential positive and negative
  2. Narrow your options, allowing a simpler process overall
  3. Evaluate the significance of the decision and set a deadline
  4. Don’t sweat the small stuff
  5. Be sure to do your research for major decisions
  6. Get a well-informed opinion, especially for major decisions

Using Failure to Build Strength

“Do not allow yourselves to be disheartened by any failure as long as you have done your best.”– Mother Teresa

As women today we may face the challenge of being led to feel that we are inadequate for our current positions or future goals. As individuals it is our own responsibility to look failure and adversity in the face and proceed with strength and resilience to the next step of success.

There is no reason to fear failure in the pursuit of success, only the ability to see each occurrence as a form of feedback. Evaluation of those times of difficulty or adversity can  lead you forward in the long run. In addition, work to question your own fears in order to build the ability to turn your own fear of failure into the use of feedback to continue your pursuit of success. It’s time to take the risks needed to advance your own personal growth without being afraid to fall!

Keys to use failure as a benefit to personal growth:

  1. Remove the pain from failure and adversity,instead acquiring the lesson from each occurrence
  2. There is no failure, only feedback that can be evaluated for improvement
  3. Feedback is necessary for personal growth and success

Misconceptions about Femininity

This is part of the She’s Next “Women Loving themselves and their Presence” Video Series. Dr. Martha Lee has contributed this video for the series and made it available for the She’s Next community first!

Author of Love, Sex and Everything In-Between and founder of Eros Coaching, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a Clinical Sexologist who conducts sexuality and intimacy coaching, and runs sexuality education events in Asia.

She is compassionate, practical, honest, interactive and solution-focused. Dr. Lee incorporates a blend of conventional and alternative approaches and draws upon a variety of styles and techniques to support each client as they work to resolve both current problems and long-standing patterns.

Love Yourself First in order to have a Great Relationship

We all value our relationships, but we know they can often be challenging as well. It is important to remember all the aspects of a great relationship, both the good and bad, and do your best!

There are some helpful tips and methods to maintain a healthy and relationship that any of us would call great.

First is to start by “Loving Yourself”

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“It is important that you are comfortable with yourself. Know your own strengths and be proud of them. “– See more at: http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-info/relationships/your-relationship-good-you#sthash.UynjGJhH.dpuf